Three posts this week! We're on fire :) Lol! It might just be as a result of the 'speech leave' a lot of us have taken on WhatsApp!
Well, people who know me well may say I’m a hopeless romantic (though I have hope in Christ Jesus *wink* Sorry couldn’t resist!) Anyway, it is with mixed feelings I'm writing this - I had the whole post out and ready to send and all of a sudden I couldn't find it. I know why though and it has taught me two lessons:
1) Patience: I was copying from a system back to my flash and before everything had gone in, I 'shift+del' -ed the folder and didn't observe that everything hadn't gone in until I was looking for something at work.
2) Be prepared: Always have a back up plan or a back up store of information especially in this day and age. My flash was my backup but I started working on it and never 'backed up' again. I thank God for my natural hard drive because He helped me remember a few things.
Anyway I've rambled enough! Enjoy today's post.
The most common definition of ‘to woo’ is 'to try to gain the love of a woman' and this is why many men stop wooing their wives after they are married but we are looking at it from the second definition 'to seek the favour or support of' someone - man or woman. Since I'm a novice in this area, feel free to drop something in the comments section. Anyway here we go:
Ladies, dress up (or dress down depending on what your man likes :D) one Friday night; bundle the kids to grandma’s or aunty’s (or even to space :p) and make a special dinner. Make it fancy with all the frills whether its wine on the dining table or a mini picnic with candle lights on the living room floor.
Guys, surprise her with breakfast in bed one Saturday morning. Let her sleep in and you be ‘mommy’ for that morning. Don’t let the kids disturb her and don’t let her alarm wake her up. Get the children involved, they can be your little waiters. (Biko if she has an appointment that Saturday, try the next Saturday).
Men, send her flowers or a box of chocolates or pizza or Chinese takeout (yes, in this Nigeria!!!) with a cute note – ‘just thinking about you from your not-so-secret admirer’ in the middle of the day. Send her something you know she’ll like!
Women, chocolates or flowers may not work for them but send him something he’ll like. Maybe a bottle of wine waiting for him when he gets to work and an ‘I miss you already, I can’t wait to see you tonight’ note. Get creative based on what he’d like.
Females, treat your men once in a while. Take him out and pay!!! When he buys a gift for you, let him see how much you really appreciate the thought instead of screaming about how much money he’s wasting buying things ‘we don’t need’ (you might need to talk about that part later though.).
Males, let her have a day off. Let her raise her legs up and laze about in front of the TV while you take on Wife Mode fully! It’s once in a while so enjoy it *wink*
The bottom line is this- Guys what you were doing when you were chasing her for her to gree, don’t completely stop and ladies, keep making him eager to chase you. It takes two to tango, one person cannot do all the work. The chase never really ends so keep on finding ways to make your forever interesting (within God’s principles of course)!!!
That’s my little piece to drop –
Any other pointers, please share.
God’s Girl.
P.S. We might be leaving here soon and starting a new blog because of some issues few of you have raised that we’re having difficulties resolving. Trust me I’m ‘sadder’ than you are so if you know any blogspot blogger that can be of help, please let us know ASAP!!!
Thanks!
Well, people who know me well may say I’m a hopeless romantic (though I have hope in Christ Jesus *wink* Sorry couldn’t resist!) Anyway, it is with mixed feelings I'm writing this - I had the whole post out and ready to send and all of a sudden I couldn't find it. I know why though and it has taught me two lessons:
1) Patience: I was copying from a system back to my flash and before everything had gone in, I 'shift+del' -ed the folder and didn't observe that everything hadn't gone in until I was looking for something at work.
2) Be prepared: Always have a back up plan or a back up store of information especially in this day and age. My flash was my backup but I started working on it and never 'backed up' again. I thank God for my natural hard drive because He helped me remember a few things.
Anyway I've rambled enough! Enjoy today's post.
The most common definition of ‘to woo’ is 'to try to gain the love of a woman' and this is why many men stop wooing their wives after they are married but we are looking at it from the second definition 'to seek the favour or support of' someone - man or woman. Since I'm a novice in this area, feel free to drop something in the comments section. Anyway here we go:
Ladies, dress up (or dress down depending on what your man likes :D) one Friday night; bundle the kids to grandma’s or aunty’s (or even to space :p) and make a special dinner. Make it fancy with all the frills whether its wine on the dining table or a mini picnic with candle lights on the living room floor.
Guys, surprise her with breakfast in bed one Saturday morning. Let her sleep in and you be ‘mommy’ for that morning. Don’t let the kids disturb her and don’t let her alarm wake her up. Get the children involved, they can be your little waiters. (Biko if she has an appointment that Saturday, try the next Saturday).
Men, send her flowers or a box of chocolates or pizza or Chinese takeout (yes, in this Nigeria!!!) with a cute note – ‘just thinking about you from your not-so-secret admirer’ in the middle of the day. Send her something you know she’ll like!
Women, chocolates or flowers may not work for them but send him something he’ll like. Maybe a bottle of wine waiting for him when he gets to work and an ‘I miss you already, I can’t wait to see you tonight’ note. Get creative based on what he’d like.
Females, treat your men once in a while. Take him out and pay!!! When he buys a gift for you, let him see how much you really appreciate the thought instead of screaming about how much money he’s wasting buying things ‘we don’t need’ (you might need to talk about that part later though.).
Males, let her have a day off. Let her raise her legs up and laze about in front of the TV while you take on Wife Mode fully! It’s once in a while so enjoy it *wink*
The bottom line is this- Guys what you were doing when you were chasing her for her to gree, don’t completely stop and ladies, keep making him eager to chase you. It takes two to tango, one person cannot do all the work. The chase never really ends so keep on finding ways to make your forever interesting (within God’s principles of course)!!!
That’s my little piece to drop –
Any other pointers, please share.
God’s Girl.
P.S. We might be leaving here soon and starting a new blog because of some issues few of you have raised that we’re having difficulties resolving. Trust me I’m ‘sadder’ than you are so if you know any blogspot blogger that can be of help, please let us know ASAP!!!
Thanks!
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