*in Shakespeare's voice* To boo or not to boo - that is the question!
Please read, digest and COMMENT!!!
I need your advice
I'm going to tell you a little bit about TJ. He's very hard working and he makes sure we talk everyday. We're not officially a couple but we've gone for lunch together a couple of times. He's well respected in his firm and he's very close to his family as well - His mum is just amazing! She treats me as one of her daughters - In fact she treats all the family's friends as family. And his two sisters are good friends as well. How we bonded I dont even understand but I'm loving our relationship. Still TJ and I are not dating. I know he has strong feelings for me - We've been friends for a while and he's told me a couple of times that he's willing to wait until I'm ready. He listens when I talk and he encourages me to do my own thing - yet when I do something I probably shouldn't have, he tells me. I like the fact that he isn't afraid to tell me when I'm wrong but he doesn't force his opinions down my throat and in certain cases, we've agreed to disagree and its not a national issue. I'm not still hurting from past relationships, far from it! I have those scars as a proof of victory!
I'm not looking for a Mr Perfect because from all indications, TJ has his flaws but is as close to it as they get.
So what is the problem you ask? Why haven't I said yes since I think I'm ready?
Well, its just that as a young Christian lady trying to do the right thing, I don't know if I should date him.
You see Mr Tijani Ahmed is Muslim.
What should I do?
Well, waiting for your comments!
P.S. Youth retreat is at Living Word Camp Ibeju Lekki!
Gods Girl
Please read, digest and COMMENT!!!
I need your advice
I'm going to tell you a little bit about TJ. He's very hard working and he makes sure we talk everyday. We're not officially a couple but we've gone for lunch together a couple of times. He's well respected in his firm and he's very close to his family as well - His mum is just amazing! She treats me as one of her daughters - In fact she treats all the family's friends as family. And his two sisters are good friends as well. How we bonded I dont even understand but I'm loving our relationship. Still TJ and I are not dating. I know he has strong feelings for me - We've been friends for a while and he's told me a couple of times that he's willing to wait until I'm ready. He listens when I talk and he encourages me to do my own thing - yet when I do something I probably shouldn't have, he tells me. I like the fact that he isn't afraid to tell me when I'm wrong but he doesn't force his opinions down my throat and in certain cases, we've agreed to disagree and its not a national issue. I'm not still hurting from past relationships, far from it! I have those scars as a proof of victory!
I'm not looking for a Mr Perfect because from all indications, TJ has his flaws but is as close to it as they get.
So what is the problem you ask? Why haven't I said yes since I think I'm ready?
Well, its just that as a young Christian lady trying to do the right thing, I don't know if I should date him.
You see Mr Tijani Ahmed is Muslim.
What should I do?
Well, waiting for your comments!
P.S. Youth retreat is at Living Word Camp Ibeju Lekki!
Gods Girl
1 comment:
Well the last part destroys the happiness I had for you while reading the beginning....you know the answer yourself which is why you haven't said the truth..we need to be able to assess and talk to ourselves truthfully about things...my dear you know there is no way here so don't give him or yourself hope....dont even lie to yourself that you can change him...always think of the consequences of any action, lets say you end up dating and getting married (which I feel as a Christian girl who is not just going into a relationship for fun but for futuristic purposes) which religion do you expect your children to follow?
My dear, don't be decieved giving yourself false hope on this issue...Let God lead you aright..God bless you
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