The Principle of a Hunter!

 

 

One Sunday in church, Tayo and I were sitting next to each other and while I was admiring one beautiful babe, he asked me, do you like her? Then I said; I think so! And then, he said, you think so or you know so? And then I said yep! Yep what? Well maybe I thought I could hide it… then he said to me; she’s a good girl! If you want, I can put up a word with her on your behalf. Then I said don’t worry bro, I like to do my own shopping myself (Note: A man’s ego can delay him…) after all you are also single, why don’t you help yourself first I thought to myself...(shakara…lol). After three months of convincing myself (with prayers o) to be sure I want to aim at this target, I came into the church and saw her wedding invitation on the bulletin. A sharper-shooter has already pulled the trigger. Omashe o! Tears rolled down my heart when I saw her in her beautiful regalia on her wedding day (of course I attended:-(.

 

Please don’t start racking your brain on where you read a book or watched a movie regarding the topic. I actually don’t have a rocket-science approach to my titles or topics. As a matter of fact. I formulate my topics based on thoughts originating from normal daily interactions, reading or experience. The principle I want to share here now is quite simple, the Find-point-aim-shoot principle. Nothing more! A hunter finds a prey, points his gun, aims at the target and with maximum conviction, he shoots! Now whether he hits or misses is another thing. But first, he must fire that shot to know the result.

Now let’s put a mature guy that wants to get married as the hunter. What you commonly find a lot of guys doing these days is find – point – aim- aim – aim, then aim oooooooooooo …until the prey wanders out of sight or another sharp-shooter takes the shot.

Some hunters try to play safe and  intentionally aim at the pray’s 3^rd finger and fires the first bullet (eng. ring) of their double barrel, a trap intended to slow her down from getting out of sight while they figure out the map to get home (the promise land).

 

 

As a hunter, you will always find preys in their packs or bunch scattered everywhere which sincerely speaking may be quite confusing sometimes, but you must remember that you are not the only hunter in that jungle. So don’t get too comfortable (like the Oga at the top) with your selection process. If you are not one of those Spiricoco that will hear the voice of God directly saying: “Behold, this is your beloved wife with whom I’m well pleased, receive her!” then you must know that time is of the essence. No dulling!

 

Covetousness is one reason why you may aim for too long without shooting. How can one be covetous in this matter you may ask. Covetousness begins with craving… why do you crave for this woman? Do you want her for who she is or you want her for what she’s not? Or better put, want her for what you want her to be (for you or for  herself).

1.       Wanting the right things for the wrong reasons - you want a lady because she dresses very gorgeously? how does that translate to good cooking in the kitchen? Are you even well dressed yourself? (Guys make una no vex o! Me self de learn o;-)

2.      Wanting status, but not wanting to serve - you want her because she works in Chevron, hmmmm…. I dey laf o! I comment my reserve!

3.      Wanting the right things but at the wrong time – we love each other, we are going to get married in a few months. But let’s sleep together now!

4.      Wating the right things but in the wrong amounts – over expectation! Your would be wife is not the solution to your problems. Go to your village and check on the witches and wizards and let that girl be!

 

Babes don’t be too happy now. The issues above rubs on you too.

 

But I’ll wait till this Friday evening when I will learn some more tips/factors from the Foresight programme, then I will come back here with a bang!

 

Watch out!

 

See ya!